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nunu · Joined: 16 Nov 2009 Posts: 2

Okay i need help . we didn;t have sex but he rubbed his thing against mine wiht a condom on while rubbing it against me it slipped we noticed it was half on nd half not on were not sure
but when igot home irealized ihad some white stuf idunt noe what it was is ther a chance icould get pregnant if his penis dabbed me with semen on in on the front part of my vj couldi get preganat and also it my ending days of my period ? could igte prganat ??

SMDuncan · Joined: 20 Jul 2009 Posts: 282

If there was no penetration, then you are safe from pregnancy. Its smart of you two to use condoms, its a great habit and when you two do have sex they can help prevent pregnancy and the spread of STDs.
The white fluid that was on you was probably your own lubrication that the body produces when aroused. Also, some condoms have a lubricant on them also, so him rubbing against you with of it exposed could have left some fluid on you.
Please reply with any further questions.

SmartHealth4U · Joined: 21 Jul 2009 Posts: 406 Location: USA

The chances of you getting pregnant from this encounter are very very slim. There would have had to have been insertion of the penis into vagina or penetration and cum inserted into the vagina for there to be a chance that pregnancy could occur.

nunu · Joined: 16 Nov 2009 Posts: 2

he did edjaculate in the condom we moved away frm each other to see the condom had slipped half way off his thing and his sperm was in the condom nd some mite have gotten on my VJ is their a chance ?
sorry i had to replace my words aagain cuz i dun;t think i sed it properly before .

Also another question
if iwas on my last day of my period like no blood jsut brownish very light last day is their a chance i could with the same situation?

like his sperm mite 've touched me dwn their when the condom slipped ??
please ???

SMDuncan · Joined: 20 Jul 2009 Posts: 282

He would have needed to be inside you and have the condom slip in order to lead to pregnancy.
Also, the brown discharge is very common during the end of a cycle. Brown discharge is usually the last of the blood to leave, and the older blood seems to have a brown color.
I hope this helps, please reply with any questions!

katrinak3 · Joined: 15 Sep 2009 Posts: 98

There is really no chance that you could be pregnant because you two did not acutally have intercourse. You should feel sure that you are not pregnant especially if you had a normal period. I agree with SMDUNCAN that the brown blood is old blood and just a sign that your period i sending. Hope every is well with you.